i’ll be like 40 w/no kids and people will say “aw i’m so sorry for you” and i’ll be like how was the fucking wiggles reunion tour asshole i went to italy last week for fun and didn’t have to hire a sitter
This is a very sad mentality. To think oneself more important than that of progeny is the sign of a failed human life.
so the wiggles concert wasn’t as good as you thought it would be huh
But actually can people calm down? Why do people who have kids feel the need to justify why it’s so much better than not having them AND why do people without kids have to act like they’re so much better than people who do choose to have children?
How about we stop trying to justify our choices to people and realize that different things make different people happy and fulfilled?
^THIS. I’m 97% sure I’m not cut out to be a mom. That doesn’t mean I’m gonna be crabby and spiteful to people who genuinely want kids.